Simply "Fate"

I'm counting the days to my D day,,,, FYI, i am going back soon to my country and i am having a wedding reception, exactly 10 more days from today... so here am i,,, counting the days,,,

lots of my friends in Jakarta are questioning my wedding news..well, i hope in a good way,,, not much of them know exactly how my love story is... i cant blame them, when they were like " aaah,awei how come she get married so quick, or long time not hear from u and suddenly i got ur wedding news, and so on and so on"...

even my best friends backhome are wondering how could "an awei" end up so young to marriage life? well, i can't blame them for being sarcastic, assuming i was not so "ready to get married type of person"...

ok guys, i am not here trying to explain or expose my love life...
i am ok with such lots of question from them... the thing is they are my friends and i do believe they are happy for me as i do.. and it makes sense when they are thousand miles away from me.... i don't expect we always contact each other and know what's new about them..

however, i do want to tell a bit of my happiness news for them..and im proudly say i am getting married (in fact i am already legally)... and I'm very happy...

i believe most of my friends still remember the old me, a young girl who talk less about love, marriage and having a baby... that's true... i admit it... i've never pictured myself tying a knot before 28, not until i met my husband...

i reckon myself not a corny type .. i prefer to be cool talking about love.. i never believe any true love before, however i believe on "fate"....neither me or my husband would ever think about both of us meet, fall in love and now we promise to each other in the name of love..

Answering those questions above (how come i get married fast), i would say : i think this is what they called "love and fate".
and eventually people will ask how do u know he is ur mr right, or he is the one..? then my answers are: i know it's theory and non-sense but u can feel it one day when u meet "the one". for no reason u have a strong connection,and u feel u know him before u meet him,,, u just know the day when he asks u to marry him, u will say "yes", cos u can picture urself spending the rest of ur life with him... there will be no doubt, no regret and that's what i feel...

my husband and i met early of 2010. somehow we just know we are meant to be each other. everything seems so right and perfect. my life's never been better..i never thought i would met my soulmates in sydney, never.. but i did,, he is my bestfriend, my partner, my husband, my lovers and my life..

i know it sounds so bullshit or it just me... well, u can assume that,,,its ok how people think about it,, cos i believe everyone has different story how to find their love... but mine, pretty much more like fairytale...when the time and fate comes to us, here we are,, in a real world,,

most of indo's chinese or even chinese background, they decide to get married after having more than a year (even have to be more than 2 years).. sounds like it is a rule, if u don't follow the rule, society will wonder, is the girl pregnant? or aaah they will get divorce soon cos they get married in early age, and blah, blah... are u agree? i know u are agree, cos i did when i was in Indo...

yet, nothing wrong with the rule... since that is the only reason for people of getting married, knowing each other well, and so they get married. But then again, do u know so many couples get married cos they assume they have been in relationship for so long, so marriage is the only reason to be an excuse. marriage is a must. or even have u ever heard couples have been in 5-12 years relationship and they broke up, eventually they meet new partner and decice to get married in less than a year. well people, THAT's TRUE... that's what i called FATE....

of course i am not questioning those of couples who's been in relationship for ages and they are now married. hey, i am truely happy with it, i really do. cos i know they are meant to be since they just started the relationship. i can tell they are perfect for each other by witnessing their love....

what i'm trying to say are..we never know when and why we fall in love, when we will meet our MR. right or when we will get married. for me i always believe FATE... and time is not a problem.. how long u guys been together is not a serious matter. the thing is, how they love each other and trust each other...

i have some friends whose haven't met "the one" and i know deep in their heart, they are worried.. but i always believe they will one day.. its just the matter of time... and when the time has come, bam, they will never be separated....

or eventhough, they can't find theirs, what's wrong with being single.. as long as u happy...who cares,,,,?? one of my friend admitted she is lots happier being single rather than in relationship...

i think i sounds so grumpy and try to convince everyone with my opinion,, ups... im sorry about that... not i wanted too...

to sum up, i share a bit opinion here cos i just want my friends to be happy.. that, one day when the d day comes to them. they will proudly say "i am a happy and lucky bride or groom" like i do....

happy wedding to all my friends who already got one and will have one sooner.... i love u all,, and i believe u guys will be live happily ever after...

i want them to know that i am happy now, i finally found mine, and i do wish everyone will find theirs...